In my opinion,everyone should has his or her own time.Even we are couple,we needn't always to be together. When I have no time.If my boyfriend is rest on the weekend,he can do many things in his spare time,such as play football with friends,have a good sleep and listen to some music to relax himself,he also can go outside to buy something that he always want to.About me ,I will go to my company as usual,try my best to do my work,when I come back home,I can hear what happened to him,just like the real couple.It's a good way to commuicate with each other and make ourselves understand our mate.Spare time is necessary for everyone.Just try to understand more about your partner.Maybe you can find a different him or her.Hope this can help you.