concubine (一夫多妻制社会中的)妾,小老婆,姨太太 , (古)姘妇,情妇第三者,小三:the other woman/man打响“婚姻保卫战” :launch a war to defend their marriage“小三过街人人喊打!”:Everyone should shout “beat them” when they see the other women!“不放手———痛苦,放手———也痛苦”:suffer bitterness either continue or end such relations.