It is a good thing to marry someone you love, no matter what nationality he is. However, I believe that there are still many problems in intermarriage. The main reason is that the world has not yet reached the stage of racial harmony and cosmopolitanism.
Foreign mandarin duck has changed into a special individual, and has to make special adaptation to cultural background, living habits and social circles.
In theory, the combination of two alien people is to add two different worlds together, and life should be richer. In fact, foreign mandarin ducks cannot get two different worlds at the same time. Usually, one of them gives up his own world and adapts to the other.
Of course, this is related to the geographical environment. Chinese people have married American wives in the United States, and their lives are naturally Americanized. Most of their children do not know Chinese culture.
On the contrary, when Chinese people marry American wives in Taiwan Province, their America is too big to adapt to Chinese culture and customs more or less, and most of their children can speak both Chinese and English.
Hong Kong is a special place. Although Chinese account for 98%, foreigners do not seem to be assimilated at all. Once Chinese marry Westerners, 90% of them are completely westernized, and they don't even speak Chinese. Most of their children only know English.
This is not a geographical factor, but a psychological factor. This place worships foreign countries, and even some Chinese couples are afraid that their children will know Chinese.
They think that they can only speak English but not Mandarin, which is a high level. Once they are married to Westerners, such people even don't want to be Chinese, and they are completely separated from the traditional Chinese circle.
I have many friends of mixed race and cousins of mixed race, but I have never fully understood their mentality. It is not that I haven't asked, but that they can't tell me why. I think they are also very confused, and it is difficult to figure out who they are more like.