American and Chinese education idea is very different. which style of parenting is best for children, permissive western parenting or demanding eastern parenting? I think we cannot broadly speaking identity agree with “tiger mother” type education or not.In the young,that is to say children are less than 1 years old. He really has nothing.
So all the little babies’ requirements are reasonable.But to meet these reasonable requests there are various options.I think it is this choice that laid in a lot of his "sensible" behavior in the future. But when the baby gradually get skills over time,he will have more requirements and preferences. I think it must be stopped to some bad behavior.That needs some the type of “tiger mother”. In other ways,something that doesn’t involve principle,parents should better satisfy his curiosity, or give his exploration and grow a “commitment”.
We can not only completely agree with this kind of American laissez-faire family education, but also have to change the way that they only give strict requirements about learning to children but seldom help children to build the relationship .
The traditional Chinese way of supporting and pushing the child to realise his full potential. Tiger moms demand perfect grades because they believe that their children can get them. They also believe that they know what is best for their children and therefore override all of their children's own desires and preferences.
For them, the best way to protect their children is by preparing them for the future, letting them see what they're capable of, and arming them with skills and work habits.
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