Hello, the topic that I will lecture for everybody is insisting on oneself today. Everybody will have one's own dreams or ideals, will there is certain planning to one's own life. However, the society has a exciting and highly competitive environment (society is an exciting but tough environment) . As a famous teenagers (as a teenager) ,We know the world as little (are fairly naive about the real world) . So, present we puzzle very much, we are making great efforts to explore. During the first winter vacation of the university, it has had no adventure that I have not travelled. A question that but has been wheeling in my brain all the time: Dream of how to shine into reality. In vacation, I watch some film, I based on this, come on, tell. This TV play hears of early believing everybody to " struggling ". Lu Tao is that Xu ZhiSen refuses to take defeat lying down at heart, utility, but influenced by the surroundings the conducting oneself and dealing with matters of Lu YaXun while as a child. Son Hua and revealing, son Hua does not understand that reveal, is a Beijinger because he is given birth to, not understanding the fatherless bitterness bleached in the north and not having sense of safety, but understand the pig's head. When Xu ZhiSen analyzes the woman around of Lu Tao, he talks about the fairy coral and fields lying fallow in rotation of rice very well, but Xia Lin makes you unable to brake. This is Xu's view, have essential difference with Lu Tao. Whom Tao Lu love Lin Xia instead of rice fields lying fallow in rotation, because he Tao Xu, even if he full of trees to draw close to will Xu once, even if he was once separated form Xia Lin. He calls Lu YaXun's father finally, married Xia Lin. " struggle " lets me know, people and people are different. Will not be vast and hazy, just have a prospect. Reality is, all is the reality except oneself. Dream of it just, one's own dream. Don't help others to realize the dream, because others are others all the time. The money is very important, the friend is more important, but oneself is the most important. Don't lose friend for money, don't lose oneself for lover, friend of friend. There is a film, I want to propose and " dream of shining into reality ". The torture to one's own soul of actress and director makes me with deep impression in the film. They are looking for oneself, they want to retract oneself and step the farther step from this numerous and complicated stage. A rich father benefits by sb's influence very much, it is very honourable to marry rich men, but all these, compared with losing oneself, not worth mentioning, nobody will really realize oneself because of others. Insist on oneself, even if the one that dream of shining into reality no two rules