Although there are races where turtles are lined up on a track and others thatallow adults to participate, these are the exception rather than the rule.
为什么我们成年人总远离奋斗?
Why we adults run away from struggle?
此外,还有一个沉默的成年人陪伴着他们,我猜想可能是父亲或叔叔。
There is also an adult with them, I assume a father or uncle. He is silent.
作为一个成年人,我有责任照顾你们的幸福安康,这当中也包括一起玩。
As an adult I have a responsibility to look out for your wellbeing, whichincludesshavingssome fun together.
该研究强调了这些成年人的独特的生存环境,比如他们害怕歧视,以及通常没有子女来帮助他们。
The study highlights how these adults have unique circumstances, such as fear ofdiscrimination and often the lack of children to help them.
他说,做为成年人就是要去观察这些蛛丝马迹。
The clues, he says, are there if adults watch for them.
You may feel especially betrayed by your husband; you may subscribe to thebelief that there should be no secrets between the adults, especially about thekids.
既然如此,你作为一个成年人,怎么会仅仅因为在人生路上碰到一些困难就把自己看做失败者呢?
So, why do we as adults think that we are failures when we find something harderto do later on in life?