Nowadays, students often have a lot of troubles. Sometimes it's academic problems, sometimes it's problems with friends. What can they do about this kind of problem? Some people think the worst thing is not trying to solve it.
Laura mills, a teenager in London, shares this view. Problems and problems are normal in life, she said. But I think it's very helpful to talk about these things with others. If we don't talk to others, we will feel worse.
Once, Laura lost her purse and worried for several days. She was afraid to tell her parents about it. She even walks three miles to school every day because she has no money. She kept thinking: if I told my parents, they would be angry.
Finally, she had a conversation with her parents, who understood her very well. Her father said he was careless sometimes. They bought her a new wallet and told her to be careful. Laura said: I will remember to share my troubles later.
Robert hunt advises students on these common problems. He has the same way as Laura“ Don't run away from problems. We should always try our best to solve them.
He thinks the first step to solving the problem is to find someone you trust to talk to. This person doesn't have to be an expert like himself. Students often forget that their parents have more experience and they are always ready to help them.
Ihave a lot of troubles, such as going to school, homework, and parents’ ramble. They like the stars in the sky. I am afraid of the darkness. This is my biggest trouble. At night, I am fear of going out alone. And when my parents sleep, I even can’t go to the toilet. Therefore, I never drink water before sleep. And I always turn on the light when I am sleeping. I know it’s not good but I can’t sleep in the darkness.
I'm a middle school student. I’m upset these days because of my parents. They pay too much attention to my study. I have to report my test results to them every time. If I get good grades they will be happy and satisfied. But if not they will be worried about me, especially my mom. I never want to let her down, but she has made a plan for my future. I am very disgusted with it. I don't know what to do. I know they really love me. I also know knowledge is important for everybody. However, I can't stand they are always making me study. I'm really expected they can understand me.
When we are little, we are eager to grow up, so that we can break free of parental discipline even leave them far. Since we were a little child, we have to be governed by teachers in school and endure parent’s ramble at home. These are our growing pains. Besides, study, friendship, sometimes campus romance may trouble us. However, as we grow up, we gradually find that things mentioned above are not pains at all. There are much more serious things brother us. For example, we may be less sensitive to the simple happiness and loss them gradually. It’s hard for us to laugh from our heart. Moreover, we are in the age that we are eager to grow up but afraid to grow up either. The ambivalence afflicts us a lot. However, no matter what happens in our growth, they are parts of our lives. We must accept them actively and do not let the pains prevent us from happiness.