take the initiative带头,倡导,发起(请注意,这里更加注重带头和倡导,远远大于那个和被动相对的主动)initiativeadj.自发的n.首创精神;主动权;第一步;倡议;项目例句:1.Take the initiative to lead those you love to better health.主动行动去帮助你所爱的人有更好的健康水平.2.And,after years of merely reacting to populists,the two large parties have found that voters prefer them to take the initiative.在多年来只是应对民粹主义者之后,两个大党发觉,选民们更喜欢他们采取主动.3.Neither does she appreciate any act nor does she take the initiative to tell me in case I am going wrong.她从来没表示过喜欢我怎么做,也不会主动告诉我我哪里做得不好.然后我们从第3例句来看,楼主的“她主动跟我讲话 she took the Ini tiative to talk to me. ”是正确的。