Say simply, the real confidence is like you yourself, that you like others should get life good things.Self-confidence is important? Very important. Although many people do not really clear it to every part of the life has a great influence, including your relationships, degree of self-confidence, career choice, happy, peaceful mood and you will make it big, people instinctively feel confident is life lessons or missing something. But look around and see yourself, whether we be in imperceptible in slowly away from it?What do people become lack confidence? In the growth process, all the unpleasant experience. These experiences to our own evaluation is very low, think oneself is very bad. And when this experience, we unconsciously converting them into three core beliefs, most people are more or less to believe these beliefs.First, we are a victim of weak, unpredictable, and their future.Second, we are not worthy, in many ways than othersThird, we congenital insufficiencyTo get really confident process actually not mysterious, change your opinion of himself. To do this, you must learn to your own life through strengthening the control of personal ability, enough, and the inherent self-worth, to those not correct core belief.