是说气候还是说人际关系呢?那么, 他对人总是忽冷忽热的。His attitude towards others is always changing或者有短语:be neither close nor distant; maintain a lukewarm relationship; keep somebody at arm's length(之前加上I feel)
by fits and startsAs you may know that most people in China learn English by fits and starts. 正如你所知道的,中国大多数人学习英语都是忽冷忽热。 cruelly and kindly Keep sb in a state of uncertain expectation, treating him alternately cruelly and kindly 对某人时好时坏、忽冷忽热